What safety measures are you taking in light of the ongoing challenges posed by COVID-19?
Your health and safety are of utmost importance to us, therefore we will follow whatever COVID-19 requirements are in place for Los Angeles County during the time of the retreat. In addition we also require the following:
Upon retreat arrival, sign a wellness waiver self-attesting that in the last 5 days you
Have not shown any COVID-19 related symptoms
Have not had exposure to / contact with a COVID-19 positive person
Dependent upon the latest outbreak status and/or latest CDC/WHO/California Department of Health recommendations, adhere to wearing a mask indoors regardless of vaccination status
Additionally, you can find the most recent health guidelines for Los Angeles County here.
Who is this retreat designed for?
Our retreat is for married or engaged couples looking to level set and "calibrate" on some key elements of a successful marriage like communication styles, expectations and shared core values. Couples that gain the most from the retreat are those that come with an open mind, a willingness to share and be vulnerable and a desire to learn from other couples - whether married 10 months or 10 years. We seek couples who can be self-reflective, emotionally mature and non-judgmental.
While all couples have issues (including us), we do not bill the retreat as the solution to marriage's challenges. Rather, our retreat will help you to be introspective about your feelings, identify some improvement areas for your marriage, and articulate your insights in a constructive way. The process is enhanced by interacting in a small and trusting community of like-minded couples.
What if I'm uncomfortable sharing?
Everyone is encouraged to participate by sharing during the open discussions but participation is at your discretion. We aim to make the environment as comfortable as possible for everyone and use several different small group configurations to accomplish this goal.
How many other couples usually attend?
We try to keep the retreat relatively small as it gives everyone a chance to contribute to the discussion and fosters a small, intimate and confidential environment.
This event has reached capacity (~10-12 couples) every year for the past four years, so don't delay your registration. Sign up today, as spots fill up fast!
Will there be guest speakers?
Our retreat will be 100% peer-facilitated. We believe in and value the power of peer-learning. We learn from each other through open and honest dialogue, constructively challenging each other's thinking, and giving time for self-reflection. We establish ground rules that create a respectful and confidential environment where we can share openly and freely.
Do I have to be engaged or married to attend?
Yes, we require attendees to be engaged or married.
Will there be time to have fun?
There will be plenty of time to have fun. From the retreat's start, we have fun meeting each other in the opening Friday night dinner - unwinding from the work week or de-stressing from travel to the retreat site. On Saturday night, we invite you to re-kindle the fire as you and your honey go out on date-night. On Sunday, we turn up with a tailgate party featuring the NFL Playoffs. Not to mention, our same-gender and mixed-gender breakout sessions are usually good for some memorable LOL moments!
Do I have to stay the entire weekend and do I have to stay at the retreat hotel?
Yes and yes. We require that attendees plan to stay through the entire weekend. You will get more out of the retreat and add more value for others by staying through the entire weekend. Additionally, we require that attendees stay at the retreat hotel, as it provides convenience and allows us to keep the retreat affordable. Please see the detailed schedule to plan accordingly.
Can I bring my kids (or pets)?
We do not allow children (and/or pets) to participate in the retreat. This weekend is about you and your spouse, no one else. We all love our kids (and pets) but they can be huge distractions when we're trying to work on ourselves and our relationships. If you can't go long without them, no worries...you will get a chance to FaceTime during breaks!
Is this a religious retreat?
While we are Christian and some of our workshop content is grounded in scripture, we welcome and respect couples from all faiths and backgrounds.
How much does this retreat cost?
Registration is $400 per couple and excludes hotel accommodations and travel arrangements. Please see the registration page for more details.
Do I have to pay the entire registration upfront and by when do I have to book my hotel reservation?
Yes, we require the entire registration upfront to reserve your spot. Spots are filling fast and registration closes on December 20, 2024. Additionally, you have until December 20, 2024 to book your hotel reservation. The exclusive reservation link providing the group room rate discount will be provided upon completing your retreat registration.
Do you offer refunds on the $400 retreat registration fee?
The registration fee is 100% non-refundable.